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ost of us start life well; we’re happy and carefree but at some point things can change.
I’m here to let you know there is a light at the end of the tunnel. With a caring and understanding ear, I’ll help you to uncover the things that are holding you back in life. Together, at your own pace, we can work through things like abuses, addictions, unhelpful habits and emotional issues.
We’re not protected when we should have been, we indulge too much in things that are bad for us, or we simply make the wrong decisions about who we are in the world.
e’re all guilty of telling little white lies from time to time. It’s a simple fact of life. However harmless doing so is, when a persons’ habit of lying becomes frequent and compulsive, it can affect many aspects of their life. Family, friendships, personal relationships and careers can suffer as a result of compulsive lying.
Habitual lying often begins as a means to attract attention and boost one’s self-esteem but, over time, it can turn into something much more destructive. Rather than increasing the perception that those around you have of you, habitual lying can cause you to lose the trust of the people that matter to you. Compulsive lying is a habit; a behaviour that you have developed and it can be broken.
I’m John Arber, one of the leading practitioner of compulsive liar therapy in Melbourne. I’ve helped people from all walks of life to break compulsive lying behaviours and take back control of their lives.
The first step is to recognise that your lying is an issue. Know what a lie is and recognise how often and the reasons you lie. To understand how to change a behaviour, one needs to determine the root cause. I can help you to identify when and why your compulsive lying started. I’ll help you to identify triggers that cause you to respond with lies and form an alternative response.
By attending my compulsive liar counselling in Melbourne, I can assess what your emotional needs are and how you can meet them without needing to lie. Often people lie because they want to attract people, attract new friendships or relationships, increase their self-worth or make their life more exciting.
We will work together to discover other ways in which you can more honestly meet these needs. In doing so, you’ll learn how to more effectively interact and communicate with others.
After each session, you will begin to feel more and more in control of your compulsive lying behaviours. I will equip you with the tools to respond to your needs and certain situations in a way other than to lie. What you’ll take from each session is a greater awareness of your behaviour and the ability and confidence to take a different approach.
Compulsive lying can put people under great stress. It can become much more difficult and time consuming to remember what lies you have told and to whom you have told them. Learning to change this type of compulsive lying behaviour can be a great relief.
My compulsive lying in Melbourne offers a comfortable, relaxing environment for you to address your behaviours and work to achieve change. If you can’t come to the office, we can conduct one-to-one Skype sessions.
Take the first step to a more fulfilled life. Call me today for a free confidential consultation. The results will be worth it.