Should I Tell My Partner About My Sex or Pornography Addiction

Are you in a situation where you started to watch a bit of pornography and then you needed to watch more and then you kept watching more and you kept watching different things and it got to the stage where you even started meeting people, hooking up and perhaps going to massage shops, perhaps going to parlours and you’ve got this secret and you don’t know what to do and it keeps happening.

One of the things and risks with this it that you’ll get caught by your partner, and so many times we think that we’re not going to get caught but a lot of people who come and see me have been caught and whats happened is theres been something on their browser that hasn’t been closed, perhaps the bank statement has come or maybe a person that you’ve hooked up with is now unhappy and threatening to tell your partner.

These are things that have really happened and they cause a lot of anxiety and put the person who’s watching a lot of porn under stress and from my experience when we’re holding this secret, is that we’re much better off to tell our partner that we’ve got this addiction because if our partner finds out not only will the infidelity be discovered but they’ll be a huge trust issue and the trust issue will be much much bigger if you found out with it.

Theres no way you’re going to avoid you partner being very distressed when you tell your parter, but in the long term it will be much better.

If you want some help doing this give me a call and i can guide you on how to tell your partner and start having some counselling. My number is 0418 720 176. Thats 0418 720 176.

Thank you.

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